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Are You Pregnant And Scared? / Pregnancy Care Crisis And Counseling / Video. Posted with permission from butterflie2484. "Women experiencing an unplanned pregnancy also deserve unplanned joy," notes Patricia Heaton, winner of two Emmy awards and a bestselling author. Ms. Heaton serves as honorary chair for Feminists for Life (FFL), a pro-woman, pro-life organization. FFL continues the tradition of early American feminists like Susan B. Anthony and Elizabeth Cady Stanton, who opposed abortion and sought to address its root causes. The sad reality is that the "unplanned joy" Patricia Heaton envisions for women is all too rare. Instead, women experiencing an unplanned pregnancy often end up experiencing the tragic violence of abortion. No "Choice" for Most. Statistics gathered by abortion supporters reveal that the primary reasons women with unintended pregnancies turn to abortion are lack of financial resources and lack of emotional support. Many women also say they felt abandoned, or even coerced into having an abortion. Despite child support laws, some fathers threaten to withhold support. Domestic violence against single pregnant women at the hands of a boyfriend is being reported with greater frequency. Coercion crosses all socio-economic classes. Jennifer O'Neill — actor, model, author and spokesperson for the "Silent No More" post-abortion campaign — reluctantly had an abortion after being coerced by her powerful and wealthy fiancé. He threatened to take away her baby if she gave birth. The abortion damaged her cervix and she subsequently suffered nine miscarriages. "Nothing in the world could ever make me opt for that choice again," Jennifer O'Neill told Capitol Hill staff and legislators at a Senate briefing. The briefing was part of a pioneering campaign called "Women Deserve Better," undertaken by pro-woman, pro-life groups Feminists for Life, Life Resources Network, Second Look Project, Solidarity with Women, Silent No More, and Women and Children First. The women at highest risk of resorting to abortion are those of college age. One out of five abortions occurs in this age group. For many years, Feminists for Life's College Outreach Program has been listening to women on campuses across the country. Women who tested positive for pregnancy at a campus clinic tell us — almost universally — that the next words they heard from clinic staff were "I'm so sorry." Then they were handed a business card for a local abortion clinic. University counselors and professors echo this message, telling students that they can't possibly continue their education and have a child — as if pregnancy makes women incapable of reading, writing or thinking. Resources are similarly lopsided. Some colleges offer $300 loans for an abortion, but no financial aid if the young woman gives birth. Pregnant and parenting students report that housing, maternity coverage, child care and telecommuting options are nonexistent on many campuses, and expensive on others. Women who are visibly pregnant are stared at like exotic animals when they cross the campus. The damage that abortion causes to women's bodies can result in infertility, future miscarriages, breast cancer and even death. Many women also carry emotional scars from the experience. Studies from Finland, Great Britain, Canada and the United States reveal higher rates of suicide, attempted suicide and psychiatric admissions among women who have had an abortion compared to women who have given birth. Abortion is a symptom of — never a solution to — the problems faced by women. As Americans, we like to say that "failure is not an option." Yet abortion has completely failed as a social policy designed to aid women. It is a reflection that we have failed women — and that women have had to settle for far less than they need and deserve.

Channel: News & Politics
Uploaded: November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am
Author: rosaryfilms

Length: 03:29
Rating: 3.909091
Views: 9646

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mari777here (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
God will bless your life for making the tough yet right choice. You are a strong woman. Thank you for sharing
laine24 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
how come you & your boyfriend aren't together?..
laine24 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
nice video.. makes me cry.I am afraid of being a single mother :(
Kayleahful (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
@crazytacoladyThat is what happened. He told her that he'd be there and support her and the baby. But was he?no.
Kayleahful (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
Promoting 'God' is a no-no if you get Tax dollars CPC. Thought that you knew that but, then again, you probablly would'nt care.
MamaPojo (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
i think it's great to hear personal stories about anti-abortion. Teens need to be taught about abstinence and birth control. Sex makes babies even with birth control. abortion is murder. Former abortion doctors speak out on Teenbreaks(dot)com.Be responsible and make the right choice, not just after, but before the baby
crazytacolady (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
You are lucky, most guys are jerks, they will tell you not to have an abortion and then when their kid is actually born they don't want to help you take care of it and end up screwing some other chick. I want kids but I don't have health insurance and I only make minimum wage so I don't think I'll be able to take care of them.
rosaryfilms (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
timlholley, thank you very much!
timlholley (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
Wonderful video...we will show all of our girls this video. Thanks for telling your story.
ysobelle123 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
im 16 my mum made me have a abotion when iwas 14 and i cry fr my baby i lost every day i now have to helthy twin girls Ellie-Mai and Skye they are 3 weeks i like ur video and think that your son is geojuss whats his name ? if you dont mund me asking

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